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What would you do if you were not afraid?
Once upon a
time a little girl in a red coated silver gown, blue sandals and cute red
ribbon band got up the stage to perform a dance in school. She was so excited
to perform in front of all. When she got up to the stage, she saw many gazes
were rested on her. Nervousness mounted over her. Music started to play and she
made her movements in according to music. But due to this nervousness she
forgot some steps and started to fumble there. Student started to laugh and
mock at her. She returned home with teary eyes with agonizing heart and after
that day it was so difficult for her to face the crowd. She became an introvert
person and today also she is trying to triumph over her introvert personality.
That little
girl was me, who is now not-a-little-girl anymore. That scar from childhood
left a deep imprint in my soul. Now also I’m having difficulties in doing
something in front of others. Recently we were having GD (group discussion)
sessions and I was so afraid to speak up though I have some content knowledge but
when everybody’s gaze constant on me, I forgot most of my points and started to
shuffle.
“I
have to face the fear. I have to take control of the situation and find a way
to make it less frightening.”
Coming to
the question “What would you do if you were not afraid?”- I listen music in my
headphone, laugh continuously without any valid reason (for this sometimes my
friends think me as a weird person) and blog about something. Before some
months my friend introduced me to this blogger world. She advised me to express
my feelings through writing as for an introvert person sometimes writing is
better than speaking. And it’s working now. Whenever I feel scared or afraid to
face a crowd, I begin to scribble something.
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To overcome
from our fear is not an easy job. It needs time, support and willing power to conquer
from your fear. I’m trying and hope one day I succeed completely.
Here’s my
attempt for write tribe blog carnival.....
Thank you
for stopping by. I read each and every comment so leave a comment to improve
me.......
Arpita , I fumble when the spotlight is on me. Recently we had Teej celebrations in my building and each song of us had to sing a song and when my turn came , I froze and could not remember a single line. But can sing well in a group.
ReplyDeleteSame here Kalpana, I fumble and can't met my gaze with others. But now I think I'm improving a little.
DeleteArpita, I am sure you'll get over this.
ReplyDeleteKeep on expressing yourself & may you conquer all your fears soon. :)
Best wishes, dear :)
I'm trying Anita and I think I'm overcoming from my fear a little bit.
Deletethanks dear....
:).. recognizing your deepest fears is in itself an awesome pride-worthy task... working on it proves that you are greater than your fears... :)
ReplyDeleteYaa Pratikshya I thing accepting your fear is one of the bravest thing...
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ReplyDeleteThanks for your advice dear....your comment gives me some strength and encouragement...
DeleteGlad to see that blogging is helping you overcome some of your fears and insecurities. It sure is a great medium to let your feelings flow.
ReplyDeleteHmm....It is actually helping me and thanks for visiting my blog......
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