Friday 1 August 2014

FEAR FACTOR: the greatest enemy of ours

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What would you do if you were not afraid?

Once upon a time a little girl in a red coated silver gown, blue sandals and cute red ribbon band got up the stage to perform a dance in school. She was so excited to perform in front of all. When she got up to the stage, she saw many gazes were rested on her. Nervousness mounted over her. Music started to play and she made her movements in according to music. But due to this nervousness she forgot some steps and started to fumble there. Student started to laugh and mock at her. She returned home with teary eyes with agonizing heart and after that day it was so difficult for her to face the crowd. She became an introvert person and today also she is trying to triumph over her introvert personality.


That little girl was me, who is now not-a-little-girl anymore. That scar from childhood left a deep imprint in my soul. Now also I’m having difficulties in doing something in front of others. Recently we were having GD (group discussion) sessions and I was so afraid to speak up though I have some content knowledge but when everybody’s gaze constant on me, I forgot most of my points and started to shuffle.


 “I have to face the fear. I have to take control of the situation and find a way to make it less frightening.” 

Coming to the question “What would you do if you were not afraid?”- I listen music in my headphone, laugh continuously without any valid reason (for this sometimes my friends think me as a weird person) and blog about something. Before some months my friend introduced me to this blogger world. She advised me to express my feelings through writing as for an introvert person sometimes writing is better than speaking. And it’s working now. Whenever I feel scared or afraid to face a crowd, I begin to scribble something.


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To overcome from our fear is not an easy job. It needs time, support and willing power to conquer from your fear. I’m trying and hope one day I succeed completely.


Here’s my attempt for write tribe blog carnival.....


Thank you for stopping by. I read each and every comment so leave a comment to improve me.......

11 comments:

  1. Arpita , I fumble when the spotlight is on me. Recently we had Teej celebrations in my building and each song of us had to sing a song and when my turn came , I froze and could not remember a single line. But can sing well in a group.

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    1. Same here Kalpana, I fumble and can't met my gaze with others. But now I think I'm improving a little.

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  2. Arpita, I am sure you'll get over this.
    Keep on expressing yourself & may you conquer all your fears soon. :)
    Best wishes, dear :)

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    1. I'm trying Anita and I think I'm overcoming from my fear a little bit.
      thanks dear....

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  3. :).. recognizing your deepest fears is in itself an awesome pride-worthy task... working on it proves that you are greater than your fears... :)

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    1. Yaa Pratikshya I thing accepting your fear is one of the bravest thing...

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    1. Thanks for your advice dear....your comment gives me some strength and encouragement...

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  5. Glad to see that blogging is helping you overcome some of your fears and insecurities. It sure is a great medium to let your feelings flow.

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    1. Hmm....It is actually helping me and thanks for visiting my blog......

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